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Was Kurt to hard on Blaine?

  1. Yes, he should let him talk. It`s not just about trust ( Blaine forgave him for texting). (20 votes [17.70%] - View)

    Percentage of vote: 17.70%

  2. Voted No, he did cheat and should give him more time. (89 votes [78.76%] - View)

    Percentage of vote: 78.76%

  3. Its still too early for me to tell. (4 votes [3.54%] - View)

    Percentage of vote: 3.54%

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vote.

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As much as I love Blaine... not really? I felt awful for Blaine obviously but I could see where Kurt was coming from. He'd heard as much as he needed to, he's not interested in having a relationship with someone he can't trust, and he's not ready for a conversation. I can understand that, so I don't think he was too hard on him at all.

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Kurt is still hurt. If he's hurt then is ok he still doesn't want to talk about it.

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When Kurt cheated emotionally with Chandler, that was a break in trust for Blaine too but he forgave Kurt and now Kurt is saying that no matter what happened, he can't trust Blaine.

I also highly doubt he slept with Eli. He wouldn't have said "You don't know what happened" just to tell Kurt how amazing the sex with Eli was.

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Nope. Very realistic. Not Blaine's best move to lead with "let me tell you about my hook up" even if it was to say it didn't mean anything. I found Kurt's reaction to be right on target since it's the first time he's seen Blaine. Distance makes these issues seem "smaller" but actually seeing him face to face brought it all up to the surface again.

The first Klaine scene with Finchel was extremely awkward to watch - so realistic and great acting by the 4 of them.

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No, its totally understandable. He just said the truth about his feelings.

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When Kurt cheated emotionally with Chandler, that was a break in trust for Blaine too but he forgave Kurt and now Kurt is saying that no matter what happened, he can't trust Blaine.

I also highly doubt he slept with Eli. He wouldn't have said "You don't know what happened" just to tell Kurt how amazing the sex with Eli was.

He said that he "hooked up" and that he was "with someone," both of which are common euphemisms for sex that certainly wouldn't be used if he hadn't had sex with Eli. If he had done something else I'm sure that's something he would have said immediately while defending himself after first confessing he cheated.

Regardless of if Kurt "emotionally cheated" it's safe to say Blaine was actually with someone else. It will take some serious time to get over that, perhaps especially since they were each other's firsts.

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Hell no, not at all. If anything he was too nice.

I personally would have just given the person whom cheated on me the finger and move on.

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No. Kurt obviously went to Ohio thinking things would go differently (didn't he even say he wanted/needed to see Blaine?) but when actually confronted with the issue you could tell he was still very shaken up by it and still clearly hurting. It's not like he came with a vendetta to attack Blaine; he thought he could handle seeing him and the reaction he ended up having was genuine.

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No I don't think he was too harsh it was an extremely human and realistic reaction. Kurt went with the intention to talk to Blaine and get some closure but when he physically saw him it hurt too much. Blaine cheated and broke his trust and I think Kurt has the right to be angry and upset. In fact I thought he wasn't harsh enough. They were extremely awkward around eachother and I thought it was very well acted by both Chris and Darren.

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All I know is that was hard to watch. Of course, Kurt had every right to say what he said. Blaine hurt him.

However, I just love the two of them so much, I want them back together. lol

seriously, can something happen that Kurt can feel like he can trust Blaine again? soon, please!!!

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Whatever I am just glad they broke up..

Kurt has every right to be upset so no I don't think he was too hard. Blaine was wrong to cheat and he needs to grow up and be more independent if all it takes is his bf to leave for a few months and he cheats.

The only I cared about was Darren's acting- he is getting better and becoming more subtle for camera. I am very proud of him. Also Blaine needs a new love interest. It really pains me that Sebastian is not getting all up on that.

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He said that he "hooked up" and that he was "with someone," both of which are common euphemisms for sex that certainly wouldn't be used if he hadn't had sex with Eli. If he had done something else I'm sure that's something he would have said immediately while defending himself after first confessing he cheated.

Regardless of if Kurt "emotionally cheated" it's safe to say Blaine was actually with someone else. It will take some serious time to get over that, perhaps especially since they were each other's firsts.


But why would Blaine say that Kurt didn't know what happened if they had sex? Something else happened. Maybe all they did was kiss. We won't know until next week I believe. Maybe Blaine chickened out at the last moment and couldn't go through with it?.

Yet I'm with Hephaistion93 on this one. That was an odd thing to say for Blaine.

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Nope, he cheated. I know if I was in that situation, that would any chance of getting back together. I suppose after awhile, I would let the person apologize. As far as I'm concerned, Kurt doesn't owe Blaine anything right now.

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But why would Blaine say that Kurt didn't know what happened if they had sex? Something else happened. Maybe all they did was kiss. We won't know until next week I believe. Maybe Blaine chickened out at the last moment and couldn't go through with it?.

If that was the case, why didn't he say that to Kurt in NY instead of letting him believe he actually cheated and have sex and hurt him? To me, Kurt believes he did. if Blaine had said something like "I met this guy, I was tempted but I couldn't go through it because I love you" then maybe Kurt would have understood and they would be still together.

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Of course he wasn't, but I have so many problems with how this storyline been written that I don't even know where to start.

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Kurt is 100% right. Blaine cheated on him, end of story. Blaine can try to explain as much as he wants but it doesn't matter, what Kurt said is right that relationships are about trust and if Blaine did that to Kurt after about a month being away, can Kurt really instantly trust him again? Obviously not. Kurt has all the rights in the world to be tough on Blaine.

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Why is Dance with Somebody's "Cheating" as the same level as Blaine's?

Flirty Texts and Hooking up are not the same thing (and no, the headcanons are not valid explanations, ie Blaine's was not drunk, was not raped, and being depressed is not an excuse).

And to answer the poll F*ck No! Kurt wasn't too hard on Blaine.

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Kurt had every right to react the way he did. I do think like some here,
that Blaine didn't have physical sex though, but it doesn't matter. He
went to have sex. Whether he did, or not...the intent was to cheat on
Kurt.



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